Sexual abuse allegations – being held to account

The sexual abuse of anyone is a heinous crime; I should know as I was sexually abused by my father.

If it is proven that someone has sexually abused another, that person should be locked up and the key thrown away.

But and it is a big but, where there have been accusations of sexual abuse and those allegations are proven to be false, the so called suspect has his or her lives destroyed. If there is a mere whiff of accusation, the so called suspect will lose their jobs and their lives are destroyed, even though that person is innocent, beyond any doubt.

What happens to the so called victim, who has made the false allegation?

I will tell you; absolutely nothing. The police will not investigate the so called victim and they just get away with it.

Many celebrities have been falsely accused of sexual abuse. In some cases, like Cliff Richard, he gets a massive payout from the police. In other such cases, like the late Freddie Starr, he not only is made bankrupt by defending himself from such false accusations but he pays with his life, through the huge stress that was caused.

No one, who has been through such a process, can ever imagine the damage that is caused to a person, both financially and physically.

For me, the continued stress over the last 6 years, has caused night fits and the worst skin condition that you can ever imagine, Prurigo Nodularis. It is a condition that cannot ever be cured but I take massive pills to mitigate the pain. Even if I bend down, I am in great pain from the scar tissue causes by the lesions, as ordinary skin stretches but scar tissue does not.

So, my daughter took money from her granddad to falsely accuse me of sexual abuse and even when I was proven to be innocent, the police did not have the brains or the will to re-interview Verity and ask her why she had falsely accused me. So, my life has been destroyed but Verity gets away completely scot free. I am far from alone. Many people, predominantly men, are falsely accused of abuse but their accuser just gets on with their lives.

There are crimes of wasting police time and making a false statement. In my case, Verity caused the police to lose tens of thousands of pounds but no one has thought to arrest and charge Verity for those crimes because the police are so incorrectly politically correct that they will not go after a young woman or any female for that matter, unless they have no choice to do so, because they have been exposed by the media; us ordinary mortals have no chance.

Then, of course, there is my sexual abuse endured from my father. He not only had the masons protecting him but there were his false claims of Alzheimer’s. I was told by my cousin just before I was arrested that “he was gone” but I proved that to be a lie because I did telephone him, months after; he was lucid and just like my “old” Dad. When he realised who it was, he did not say another word.

By his actions, when I was just a little boy, he has irreversibly physically damaged me and my mental health is in tatters.

But he got away scot free.

Where is the justice in that? There is no justice for the likes of me.

Published by David Hender (copyright owner- all rights reserved)

If you want to know me, you first need to understand where I have been and where I am going

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