People who read my post regarding my email to my daughter, may have thought that it was too hard hitting and quite nasty
But, after 4 years of silence and uncovering lies, deceipt and conspiracies, quite frankly, I have had enough.
It is no longer appropriate for me to “pussy foot” around my daughter. It is time to tell her the cold, hard truth.
I have backed up that email by sending this one this morning
David HenderMon 07/10/2019 08:47
You may feel that the email that U sent the other day as nasty. Yes, it was but you had to know how U feel.You have disrespected meYou have disrespected the love that Nana gave to you unconditionallyYou have disrespected the love that Liesel gave you unconditionallyYou have disrespected their memoriesAll that they wanted to do was to care and love you, when you needed it most, when your mother started to sleep around and did not think of you once.You have thrown all of that love back in their facesDo you remember the conversation we had when you found your mother’s love letters? You were not even mentioned, just Emily. You were heartbroken and I comforted you. Did not my care and empathy of you mean anything to you?You should be thoroughly ashamed of yourself and should hang your head in shame for the rest of your lifeI do not what you have told your friends about me. Maybe you have said that I was dead but whatever you have told them, it has been a lie. That lie will live with you for the rest of your life. JUST THINK ON THATYou have not only broken my heart but you have broken the hearts of your Nana and your Liesy, wherever they may be.Why would you do such a thing? All we have ever wanted is to care for you and to guide you but you have just put two fingers up to the three of us.All of those promises that you have made in front of church full of people have been broken. If they knew what you would do, not 7 years later, they would not have clapped you.You even made those promises on camera, for Liesel’s video to be sent to her friends who could not attend. Those promises too were all lies.Don’t you have any shame? It seems not. If you can stand in front of a Police officer and tell such blatant lies, then clearly you have none.You have literally destroyed my life, my dreams and what life I have left by telling a lie. Are you proud of yourself?You have also destroyed my purpose in life; to care, to guide and to love youI hope that when you are older, your children or partner break your heart too and then you will have an idea of what you have done to me.I was and am still willing to forgive you but that gesture by me has meant nothing to you, has it?