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David’s top 20(ish) of the most demeaning and female gender biased adverts and dramas (and sometimes films) about men. (Re-posted and updated)

This chart, which will be regularly updated and will be kept near the top of all of my posts, as I will apply a “sticky” to it.

Adverts that are “gender related” are excluded, such as for tampons, make up (of which there are so many), Viagra and those for incontinence (although you will never see one for men) Let’s face it, if you scroll through the adverts, you will see more women’s faces as compared to those of men.

  1. Murdoch Mysteries (I have talked at great length about this light hearted drama so please refer to specific posts, of which there are a great deal). The female gender bias and demeaning of men are incessant. In addition, through so called chance meetings with Dr Ogden, she more than occasionally gives ideas to Murdoch that end up solving the crime. HENCE THE NUMBER ONE SPOT, for so many reasons.
  2. Hotel.com (the advert when they are all in the bathroom and the man is on the toilet doing a “number 2”. I don’t think that you can get any lower than that for demeaning a man and yes, you would never see the roles reversed, would you)
  3. Our time over 50s online dating (90% female actresses, 10% male actors, 100% female voice over artists)
  4. Aldi supermarkets (To get around the gender bias issue, they have a “husband and wife” who just happen to be two sapphists. This way, they can ensure that they can get twice as many women into an advert. If challenged, they can argue they are being anti homophobic; a clever but inevitably faulty proposition)
  5. Totally Money.com (for adverts that ask if “he has a big one” or quoting the numbers “6,7 and 8whilst Anthea Turner moves her hands apart implying a question as to how long his member is), if not via double entendres but you would never see that applied to a woman
  6. Woucher (where most of the adverts see three women, prancing around as though they were prostitutes)
  7. Woucher (where men are seen prancing around looking like sheer dickheads)
  8. KFC (using only women with so called hip London accents)
  9. Boots (where their adverts are mainly directed at women)
  10. Cancer adverts (cancer affects everyone but even if it is does not relate to breast cancer (although men get that too), you will see pink everywhere
  11. All bingo and on line gambling adverts (especially for Sun Bingo) where men are either totally excluded or mainly excluded (except 21)
  12. Pay day loan adverts (where you generally see, with exceptions, that it is always the women fixing the problem by thinking of a pay day loan company)
  13. Haven Holidays (where two pretty little girls are used in the advert. This could be considered one of the worst as the production company is just using the girls because of their gender and for no other reason)
  14. Adverts that have a voice over artist (as most of these are done by women artists)
  15. Experion (you would not see women in these so called funny adverts)
  16. The television channel known as “W” (this is directed at purely women and is part of the UK TV channel portfolio) Need I say more. It is not number two because the whole channel can be avoided but for Murdoch Mysteries, it cannot as it floods both the Drama and Alibi channel (please refer to my post https://wordpress.com/post/davidhender.life/3127)
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Why women are allowed to get their own way, ALWAYS

Let’s face it, where there is a woman and a man in a relationship, who is the one that gets their own way? The answer is women and I will tell you why.

It is not just that most women are devious and can look at someone straight in the eye and lie but it actually comes down to what would happen if a man put his foot down and refused to agree to something, whether it be a holiday, a house or just about anything?

Yes, some of these subject matters may seem inconsequential but if there is a rift, on even a small thing, that rift gets larger and larger, with the sad end result that the relationship breaks down.

It does not matter if the woman sleeps around or not during this process, as the justice system, as it stands will always but always favour the woman over the man.

I thought my first marriage was going well. Yes with bumps in the road but no marriage is perfect. Yes, I would concede on a number of things to keep her sweet and sadly most women in a deep relationship rely on the fact.

I have proved that my first wife purposely broke up the marriage. She started committing adultery with my best friend, without my knowledge, and pushed me so far that I could take no more and started arguing with her. Anyone who knows me well, will know that I was very laid back but, when push came to shove, if I thought that what was going on or was about to happen was wrong, I would say so.

Here is a classic example. She moaned at me for spending £50 on a chest to keep all of my cufflinks in but was happy to spend over £3,500 on a remote controlled gas fire place that I never saw because it was installed when we were on our “trial separation”. I still treasure that cufflink box but that very expensive fireplace is long gone. She also wanted a conservatory earlier on. I said that we did not need it but she said that it was her money that she was spending and she could do with it as she pleased. But I thought that we were married and a married couple share things and agree on most things, especially to do with the family home.

The so called trial separation then instantly became a “I want a divorce” and she financially raped me, taking everything that I had worked so hard for. After all, I had paid for the mortgage and the deposit on the house.

After the divorce, I was left with fuck all and I was in a worse state than when I bought my first home in Guildford, years before; I had saved up most of the money that I had earned from working at my father’s company and more besides when I was working in my first proper job at Wilkins Kennedy.

But all of that was taken away from me. I lost so much that I had to live with my parents for six months before my father agreed to lend me money to buy my home in Brockham.

In my second marriage, it was she who walked out on me. She had brought zip into the marriage; in fact, she brought debt, which I paid off for her. But she was having an affair with a woman but swore blind in court that her children were to live with her, which there was no intention of happening, as the children’s father found out that she was a sapphist and took the children under his wing.

So, after bringing in nothing but debt to a one year marriage, I had to pay out £225,000 to her. That is not bad, is it?

That is why I am so fucked financially and am imprisoned on this island.

Do you see now why men will always give into their partners? Because they do not want to experience what has happened to me and many other men; THAT IS WHY.

It is just not just the money as that is somewhat immaterial although painful. It is the fact that in a break up, the woman always takes the children and more often than not, turns the children against their biological father.

So, the women get loads of money to buy a new house, take the children and then installs a puppy of a lover, who will agree to whatever she asks or says because otherwise he will suffer the same fate

THAT IS WHY MEN WILL ALWAYS BUT ALWAYS GIVE IN TO THEIR PARTNERS.

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David’s top ten(ish) of the most demeaning and female gender biased adverts and dramas (and sometimes films) about men.

This chart, which will be regularly updated and will be kept near the top of all of my posts, as I will apply a “sticky” to it.

Adverts that are “gender related” are excluded, such as for tampons, make up (of which there are so many), Viagra and those for incontinence (although you will never see one for men) Let’s face it, if you scroll through the adverts, you will see more women’s faces as compared to those of men.

  1. Murdoch Mysteries (I have talked at great length about this light hearted drama so please refer to specific posts, of which there are a great deal). The female gender bias and demeaning of men are incessant. In addition, through so called chance meetings with Dr Ogden, she more than occasionally gives ideas to Murdoch that end up solving the crime. HENCE THE NUMBER ONE SPOT, for so many reasons.
  2. UK TV channel “W” (Too much to say here but please refer to my post https://wordpress.com/post/davidhender.life/3127)
  3. Totally Money.com (for adverts that ask if “he has a big one” or quoting the numbers “6,7 and 8whilst Anthea Turner moves her hands apart implying a question as to how long his member is), if not via double entendres but you would never see that applied to a woman
  4. Woucher (where most of the adverts see three women, prancing around as though they were prostitutes)
  5. Woucher (where men are seen prancing around looking like sheer dickheads)
  6. KFC (using only women with so called hip London accents)
  7. Boots (where their adverts are mainly directed at women)
  8. Experion (you would not see women in these so called funny adverts)
  9. Cancer adverts (cancer affects everyone but even if it is does not relate to breast cancer (although men get that too), you will see pink everywhere
  10. All bingo and on line gambling adverts (especially for Sun Bingo) where men are either totally excluded or mainly excluded (except 21)
  11. Pay day loan adverts (where you generally see, with exceptions, that it is always the women fixing the problem by thinking of a pay day loan company)
  12. Haven Holidays (where two pretty little girls are used in the advert. This could be considered one of the worst as the production company is just using the girls because of their gender and for no other reason)
  13. Adverts that have a voice over artist (as most of these are done by women artists)
  14. Our time over 50s online dating (80% female actresses, 20% male actors, 100% female voice over artists)
  15. The television channel known as “W” (this is directed at purely women and is part of the UK TV channel portfolio) Need I say more. It is not number two because the whole channel can be avoided but for Murdoch Mysteries, it cannot as it floods both the Drama and Alibi channel
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WHY I AM DUE COMPENSATION FROM BERWIN LEIGHTON PAISNER, PAICOLEX TRUST MANAGEMENT AG AND WILLIAM HENDER, MY OWN FATHER

The email below should help everyone to understand as to why I am due significant compensation from these three entities. I am not going to “reinvent the wheel” as the details in the email below are self explanatory

Compensation payments
This message was sent with High importance.
David Hender
Thu 02/05/2019 09:55
  • Lisa Mayhew Managing Partner Berwin Leighton;
  •  Clare Edwards (Paicolex);
  •  Bill Hender;
  •  Andrew Lugg (Paicolex Chairman)

+3 others

You may all believe that the compensation payments are unjustified but they are not.
With regard to Paicolex Trust Management AG
The trust company and its trust officers must make independent decisions as to payments out of the trust. The trust officers were clearly not independent and have therefore breached their fiduciary and legal duties to both the trust itself and to the beneficiaries.
This grave misconduct has resulted in one of the beneficiaries (i.e. me) being not only financially disadvantaged but has caused me significant emotional and physical harm and has been the primary cause of my psoriasis, a very painful affliction, cause by huge amounts of stress.
The trust officers have been well aware for a number of years of the brain cancer removal operation that has subsequently caused a very high susceptibility to stress and have thus put myself in significant personal physical danger. It is no exaggeration to say that I could have had a fatal heart attack at any time.
With regard to Berwin Leighton Paisner
 
As the holding company of the above, Berwin Leighton Paisner is to be held ultimately responsible for Paicolex’s actions and the grave effects that were caused to myself. Not only that, but BLP has been made aware countless times of all situations pertaining to me and they, including the Managing Partner, Lisa Mayhew, completely ignored my concerns and took no action whatsoever to protect me. They have, by their own admission, failed to bring to task those responsible for behaving in this way towards me and are thus just as culpable as Paicolex, as if Berwin Leighton Paisner had made those unfair and dishonest decisions and acted in a prejudicial way towards me and have thus breached their own fiduciary and legal duty of care that should have been afforded to me.
With regards to William Thomas Hender, my father
He has acted in a manner that has been highly prejudicial to me and has behaved outside his duties and responsibilities to the trust. By his actions, in demanding that the trust officers effect certain transactions that have caused me much distress and emotional harm, he too is culpable for his actions and must pay compensation as a result.
With regards to Paicolex Trust Management AG, Berwin Leighton Paisner and William Thomas Hender
All of the above parties have acted in concert in attempting to financially ruin me and to cause me harm, a level of harm that cannot, by any account, be monetised but a figure there has to be. No amount of money can assuage the level of harm that has been caused to me by the parties conspiring against me and by agreeing that spurious amounts of debt are due, by deducting sums, without my consent  (which goes against every rule in the book as to legal and fiduciary duties of care) and for all acting in such an unprofessional way as to an outsider believing that the trust and its assets are to do with as they please.
I cannot force the termination of employment of those individuals who directly acted in a way that was against my interest but removal of those employees, it has to be.
By the continual failure to hold those responsible to account, including Lisa Mayhew,the Managing Partner of Berwin Leighton Paisner, all of the entities have continually failed in their fundamental duty of care to the law and have failed in their legal and fiduciary duty of care to me, as a beneficiary.
In any firm that is professionally run, those people involved would have all be sacked for gross misconduct or removed from office for the same offence and walked out of the door by security, with no compensation for loss of office being paid but Berwin Leighton Paisner and Paicolex Trust Management AG have failed in even that fundamental basic responsibility. 
It is quite clear, by their own inaction and actions, that neither Berwin Leighton Paisner or Paicolex Trust Management AG can ever be trusted to either abide by the law or to protect the beneficiaries of a trust from harm but would rather throw away their independence and take instructions as to how the trust should be handled by a third party or associates of that third party.
I cannot take Paicolex to court as its is outside the jurisdiction of UK law but by suing Berwin Leighton Paisner, it would be a case of Goliath, with its massive funds, against a David, who has few funds but has been subjected to continual and conspiratorial harm by all parties.
Regards
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Is there any male actor brave enough?

I wish the injustice done to me, to be known by the masses.

I have contacted various British actors, as it is a British story but all of them have never replied; they are more worried about their careers and bank balances to get involved.

They are all cowards

This is what the female gender sadly rely on. They know that no one will speak out through whatever media but they are all too vocal themselves about what they have supposedly gone through, some true but a lot lies.

So, I ask the world, as I know that many people around the world, from many many countries, read my blog.

IS THERE ANY MALE ACTOR IN THE WORLD WHO IS PREPARED TO PUT HIS HEAD ABOVE THE PARAPET AND TELL MY STORY?

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I want to make a difference

That was the reply that I got from my daughter when I expressed my concern for her to go into family law. But I was so very proud of her when she made that statement.

Regular readers will be familiar of my morality and I, too, would like to make a difference. I hate politicians and it is quite late in the day for me but maybe one of the better ways of me trying to improve the morality of the political scene is to go into politics, as I would be hypocritical to just stand on the sidelines and do nothing.

But here is the rub. I would never achieve my goal. Why? Because, even if I wanted to follow that path,everyone who would prefer the status quo, would do anything to bring me down.

And down they would bring me because, even though I was proved to be innocent of any crime by the Police, I am still tainted by those false accusations. A great number of people are like sheep and when my past was exposed, they would apply the “no smoke without fire” principal and I would be damned.

In fact, I would be damned whatever I do in the future. Those false accusations will follow me until I am dead and cremated and even after that because everyone in the papers like to expose what they see as the truth, even if it is completely false.

I am surprised that my father, Berwin Leighton Paisner and Paicolex Trust Management AG have not done that already to blacken my character, to put people off the scent of what has really gone on or maybe they are just holding that in reserve in case I go too far, which I have every intention of doing.

Through her selfishness and greed, my daughter’s accusations have damned me, regardless of what I now try and achieve, my projects, quite literally anything and everything.

Verity has damned me for life

If I had a new family, would Verity have damned their lives too?

As a footnote, I would normally send the link to this post to Verity to attempt to convince her to tell the truth and to release me from this millstone but I have no intention of doing so. I have tried for years to help her understand what she has done, to lay down so many olive branches but she does not care a damn. She would not even confirm that she was safe or alright, which clearly is now a measure of that person.

 

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I am going to keep living until I am alive again

With what has gone on and what is going on in my life, there is nothing that I can do apart from keeping on living until I can deal with all of the hurt that has been inflicted on me.

I cannot just roll over and die. I have low will power but have the will to carry on until I see the light again.

Over the last few days, I have come to realise that for whatever reason, I am unlikely to see Verity ever again. I feared for her safety but she could not even send me a two worded email saying “okay Dad”. That would have given me so much relief.

She has become so very selfish, more than I could ever imagine someone to become; it would seem that my darling Verity, my little girl is lost to me and I do not even know the reason why. I can guess but will never know for certain, as it would be only Verity, from the family, who would ever tell me the real truth.

The only hope that I can muster is nothing to do with Verity, although I will always long for her to be in my life again but is to carry on fighting, as that is now all that I can do.

Hopefully, one day soon, I will be off this fucking island and out of this house that haunts me so much and be in a new place where I can start afresh, yet again.

To that end, I will continue to embarrass all of the people who have wronged me and get what is rightfully mine to enable me to start a new life.

I am so very tired and sleep more and more each day but I have this fire inside me to keep me going and to do what is right.

If it means destroying my only income source, sobeit. If it means tearing down the corruption in Berwin Leighton Paisner and Paicolex Trust Management AG, sobeit. If it means exposing my father as a tax evader and child abuser, with him being locked up, sobeit.

I have to harden myself up for the challenge. If I get a call to help my father, for whatever reason, I will just ignore it. Let the people who have benefited so much from him, pull their fingers out of the arses and help him for once in their life. He can no longer ask me to set everything aside and to rely on my kind nature.

My family does not exist to me; it has all gone, including my beloved Verity.

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IT NEVER CEASES TO AMAZE ME…..

……. that despite all of the cast iron evidence that Berwin Leighton Paisner, Paicolex Trust Management AG and my so called father have contrived to financially stitch me up, some of the evidence I might add that was sent by Paicolex itself to me, they have completely IGNORED REALITY and have done what they have always done, which is to continue to treat me unfairly as compared to my brother, with regards to the financial assistance provided by the Hender Family Settlement.

Not only that, but they have completely ignored my submissions of fact that stated that my father now has advanced Alzheimer’s and that he should not be in control of the trust.

The only person who responded was Andrew Lugg, the chairman of Paicolex, who quite unbelievably stated “that he had no intention of removing my father as “UK representative of the trust”,( which you can translate into the controller and settlor of the trust) “for having Alzheimer’s”.

Alzheimer’s is a very sad and dreadful disease; I should know as my Mum had it too. But to ignore the fact that his irrationality and delusional behaviour caused by the disease still allows him to control a £25M plus trust is simply irresponsible and PROFESSIONALLY NEGLIGENT

Here are the emails sent by my own family that show that he incapable of even sending an email. What has Martin got to do with it?

RE: Dad
Martin Hender <martin@castlecombebrewery.co.uk>
Mon 10/07/2017 14:46
  • ‘David Hender’;
  •  billhender321@outlook.com;
  •  ‘Ali Hender’

David,

Never, never threaten me. Dad is perfectly fine, and has just returned from 2 weeks holiday, in the NF and Wales. He tried to email you last week but used an incorrect address and it bounced back. He or I will try and re-send.

I will say this only once. If you do anything against dad’s will, you will have me and all I can muster raining down on you. You are the one who should be taken in to care, just reflect on your behaviour over the last few years. You are a sad individual with far too much time on your hands. I suggest you sort out your own life before interfering with others.

End of communication. Copied to Dad.

Martin. IF THIS DOES NOT SHOUT ALZHEIMER’S, I DO NOT KNOW WHAT DOES

Re: Fw: Bill Hender
LORI CAMERON <loric2422@gmail.com>
Tue 04/07/2017 15:42
  • You

David, why would you forward your letter to Brenda to your father.  This will get his armour up.  Be very careful David how you tread please.

Very concerned,
Lots of love,
Pat oxox

The question is this; why would she know about my emails unless she had been in regular contact with my father; not just the once a week that she said she contacted him

RE: Inequities
Bill Hender <billhender321@outlook.com>
Thu 02/03/2017 09:03
  • david_hender@hotmail.co.uk;
  •  martinhender@btinternet.com

I am now very tired of receiving your  e-mails and I am taking legal steps to stop you.  If you come to Ashtead I will not see you, and you would have had an expensive wasted journey. Your continued reference concerning money and my health is little more than harassment. Once and for all I am in perfect good health despite your allegations. By your continued attitude to wards me , I no longer know you as my son.

Dad

HE WAS DIAGNOSED TO HAVE EARLY ONSET ALZHEIMER’S TWO YEARS BEFORE THIS EMAIL. PERFECT HEALTH? SADLY RUBBISH. IT IS CLEAR EVEN BY THIS TIME, HE HAD BECOME DELUSIONAL

Re: Verity’s maintenance adj
samantha.parkinson@daimler.com
Mon 14/03/2016 19:28
  • david_hender@hotmail.co.uk
Don’t threaten me David, what do you have a letter from an irate mother in law.
I included your father as he had discussed your maintenance with Verity and I was keeping him in the loop. 
I would like a letter from your solicitor.
You really are a very nasty man, especially after all the help I gave you when Roseanna left you.
Sam
Sent from my BlackBerry 10 smartphone.

THIS EMAIL PROVES THAT MY EX WIFE WAS IN LEAGUE WITH MY FATHER – WHAT THE “F” HAS MY DAUGHTER’S MAINTENANCE GOT TO DO WITH HIM. ANSWER. NOTHING.

THIS WAS ONE MONTH BEFORE MY FALSE ARREST

RE: Verity’s maintenance adj
samantha.parkinson@daimler.com
Mon 14/03/2016 16:14
  • david_hender@hotmail.co.uk;
  •  stuart.parkinson@rsmuk.com;
  •  billhender@hotmail.com

Hi David

I have just made some enquiries and you are liable to pay the maintenance up until she starts university in October and therefore you have to pay to cover the holiday period, so the 15th September will be the last payment for the final two weeks of that month if you have indeed paid in advance, if you have paid in arrears the payment on the 15th September needs to be for six weeks.

Please confirm that you will be paying these until the 15th September, as I really don’t want to go down the court order enforcement route but will if I have to.

I will also check all my paperwork to confirm whether or not these maintenance payment were paid in advance.

Then from the 15th September 2016 we no longer need to correspond.

Bill I have copied you in as I understand you had a conversation with Verity in this regard, so just keeping you informed.

Kind regards

Samantha Parkinson

Accountant Brentford and Heathrow

South London Market Area

Mercedes Benz Brentford

Great West Road

Brentford

Middlesex

TW8 9AH

Tel: 020 8560 2151

m. 07826 533533

YET MORE EVIDENCE THAT MY EX WIFE WAS IN LEAGUE WITH MY FATHER. AND NOW HER CURRENT HUSBAND. WHY?

Hender Family Trust / December 2015 interest on David Hender consolidated loan
Thomas Meier <thomas.meier@paicolex.ch>
Mon 15/02/2016 09:56
  • ‘David Hender’;
  •  John Marriott

Dear David,

Thank you very much for your mail of 13th February together with the amended and updated loan and interest position. This looks fine and is agreed – with one exception.

The position “Adjustment” has never been accepted and is not agreed. I would therefore appreciate if you would kindly remove this entry and adjust the interest calculation with the next payment. (I AGREED TO REMOVE THE ADJUSTMENT)

Best wishes and kind regards

Thomas

SO THE LOAN BALANCE WAS AGREED WITHOUT EXCEPTION SAVE FOR THE ADJUSTMENT, SUBSEQUENTLY RECTIFIED. BUT NOW, THEY CHANGE THEIR TUNE

ALSO, WHY IS JOHN MARRIOTT, MY FATHER’S LACKIE, BEING COPIED IN? YET MORE AND MORE COMPLICITY

Computer hacking
Bill Hender <billhender@hotmail.com>
Wed 20/01/2016 20:19
  • David;
  •  Bernard Reed;
  •  Thomas Meier Paicolex;
  •  Martin home;
  •  Ron Downhill;
  •  Alexander Tate;
  •  john Marriott;
  •  Anita Rauser;
  •  Lori
+4 others 

David

It is my belief that you are hacking into my computer, as you appear to have information of my present and future plans both financially and private. If my assumption is correct, you must immediately cease these activities. If you use any of the information that you have recovered and which you use to my disadvantage, I will commence proceedings against you. I am changing my pass word and e-mail address and will only communicate these to people that I can trust. Sadly you will not be amongst  them 
Dad

 

SO, HE IS NOT ONLY DELUSIONAL BUT HANDING OUT HIS PASSWORD, LIKE CONFETTI, TO JUST ABOUT EVERYONE

General
Bill Hender <billhender@hotmail.com>
Sat 09/01/2016 08:19
  • David;
  •  Thomas Meier Paicolex

David

Thank you for your Christmas card, it was thoughtful of you.I received a thank you from Verity, who says she will be in touch.
I am preparing the accounts of A.S.C and I need your assistance with regard to your bridging loans.
1) Have you repaid as instructed by the Court the outstanding interest on the loan for the purchase of Nepcote House.
2) Could you please let me have a schedule of the individual amounts that were advance to you  under the new bridging loan showing the amount, date and purpose.
3) Can I also have a schedule of the amounts you have repaid showing again the amount, date and purpose
4) Would you let me have the  calculations  of the interest you owe up to 31st December 2015
5) Has the work been completed on Nepcote House, and if so, has it been placed on the market at what price
Many thanks
Dad

 

IN 2016, WHEN HIS ALZHEIMER’S HAD NOT BITTEN HARD, HE WAS PREPARED TO TAKE MY FIGURES FOR THE AMOUNTS ADVANCED BUT ONLY THREE YEARS LATER, HE STARTED TO INCLUDE ERRONEOUS FIGURES THAT WERE FACTUALLY PROVED TO BE INCORRECT, AS HIS ALZHEIMER’S SADLY PROGRESSED

RE: Verity
Bill Hender <billhender@hotmail.com>
Fri 18/12/2015 22:19
  • David
David
Thank you for Verity’s address. I will be away for Christmas and to early in the New Year both at Martins and South Lawn.
As 2015 is nearing its end, I send you my best wishes for 2016. We do not see eye to eye and therefore for both our sakes,  we should keep away from one and other. Saying that, you are my son and I will always love you despite the bitterness in the past. You will not be for gotten in my will, and nor will Verity.
I am very happy doing the things I want, and for what ever time I have left, I want to continue that without any aggravation or stress, which occurs when we were together. Have a happy life and try to enjoy yourself and make real friends.
Dad

THREE YEARS LATER, AS HIS ALZHEIMER’S STARTED TO BITE, HE SAID THAT I WAS NOT HIS SON AND HE WAS DISINHERITING ME

Martin Hender and School Fees.
Bill Hender <billhender@hotmail.com>
Fri 18/12/2015 12:00
  • Anita Rauser;
  •  Martin home;
  •  David

Dear Anita

I am still acting on behalf of Martin for Tax matters. HMRC gave him a large tax credit which meant that although the original amount to be paid on his behalf from his tax account by 31st January 2016 ,was £16,225.86 this has been reduced to £603.74.I will ask Martin to instruct his bank by this e-mail  to pay this amount in January ref. 8098796152K Credit account No. 157 8006  Nat. West Bank PLC  Collections A/C H.M Revenue  Customs.  Santander. Bootle. Merseyside          L30  4UA Sort Code 57-80-06.
I have received invoices for the childrens’ school fees for next term.
Will you kindly instruct Cazenove to transfer £16,500 to Barclays Bank from Capital  Account  to Hender Family Settlement  GBP EASA CAP School Fees A/C Client 000542520 DECH-GBP-C004
The individual invoices are;
Fresham Heights HSBC Farnham Branch Sort Code 40-21-05 Account No. 01511270
Ref. Invoice 13304 Account Ref. 08529 / 7643 £9270. re. Miss V . Hender
King Edwards School  Bath. Nat. West.  Sort Code 600205 A/C No. 83527818 Ref. Pupil No. HEN08 Bill No. 0086873
   Miss Iyshea B. Hender £4,354.35
King Edwards School Bath.Nat. West. Sort Code 600205 A/C  No.83527818 Ref.Pupil No. HEN06 Bill No. 0086870
   Miss. Francesca G. Hender £4,354.35
The School Fees have to be paid by 5th January 2016
Many thanks for all your help
Kindest regards
Bill

 

THIS IS PROOF THAT HE WAS TAKING MONEY OUT OF THE TRUST, WITHOUT PAYING TAX TO PAY FOR MARTIN’S CHILDREN’S SCHOOL FEES

THIS IS ILLEGAL AS INCOME MUST ALL BE DISTRIBUTED BEFORE CAPITAL CAN BE PAID OUT. THIS IS TAX EVASION

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Bill Hender <billhender@hotmail.com>
Fri 10/07/2015 13:00
  • David

I will retract what I said concerning you doing the tax as it is rather complex. That is if you want me too.

If yes,  will you send me the tax return if you have recently received it signed please.
Your instalment for tax payable by 31st July 2015 is £15,398.05 and I would write to Inita in the usual way with a copy to you Will you let me know the balance on your tax bank account after a payment of £15,398.05.
I have been having conversations with Ron concerning tax on dividends, and will continue doing so now we have a budget. Will you let me know if you paid any charitable payments in the year ended 5th April 2015, and the amount that you received from Barclays for interest in 2014/15. The HMRC would not allow you to claim, for your subscription to Chartered Accountants as you received no income for being a A.C.A. It might be worth having a talk with the Institute and explain to them that you can not work, with a view to reducing your subscription which I believe is £300 p.a.
You may have guessed that I was involved with the Trust when they considered your future. The Amount to be loaned of
£20,000 in addition to the main loan,  is to restore the building for a higher sale price. I explained to Ron that an agreement must be made with her solicitors prior to any work being started,  that Rosanna would not receive more that £295.000 irrespective of the sale price obtained. You might want to consider Tino to paint the outside and possibly help with the garden. His wage is £15 per hour and telephone  07882 535219. You should get a receipt for any money paid, but reassure Tino that this is just for the lenders to see.
I am transferring what money I have at Barclays Wealth with Barclays Retail at Leatherhead under George. Will you let me know if this is also your wish. You will then have to give instructions.
I also intend to consult Thomas for Barclays Retail ( George ) to handle your accounts with A.S.C and also to handle the school accounts. The mistakes that the administration at Barclays Wealth made do not want to be repeated.
Incidentally , I wrote to DVLA and my insurers to advise them that I had a minor and I repeat minor form of dementia.
dad

THIS NOT ONLY SHOWS THAT HE WAS IN LEAGUE WITH RON DOWNHILL TO CHEAT HMRC OUT OF TAX RIGHTFULLY DUE BUT HE HAS CONFESSED HIMSELF IN WRITING THAT HE HAS ALZHEIMER’S. IF HE HAD SENT SUCH A LETTER TO THE DVLA, THEY WOULD HAVE TAKEN AWAY HIS LICENSE. THAT IS THE LAW

From: billhender@hotmail.com
To: thomas.meier@paicolex.ch
Subject: RE: The way forward
Date: Wed, 3 Jun 2015 12:34:20 +0000

Dear Thomas

You are aware of the reason that the Trustees deducted Verity’s school fees from David’s dividend. I would be pleased if you could reverse this for David and also for Martin, providing that following the Court hearing you would not be committing perjury.
Kindest regards
Bill

THIS SHOWS THAT MY FATHER TOLD THE TRUSTEES WHAT TO DO. PAICOLEX TRUST MANAGEMENT AG WERE THEREFORE NOT INDEPENDENT AND IS FURTER PROOF THAT MY FATHER CONTROLLED THE TRUST

(There is plenty more but this post is getting far too long. But all of the proof will go in the SRA submission. A lot of time needed but there is no great rush.)

I have warned them that I will be reporting the relevant people to the Solicitors Regulation Authority AND The Law Society but that still seems to have given them no incentive to make the changes that I have sought.

It just goes to show the complete arrogance of institutions like Berwin Leighton Paisner and Paicolex Trust Management AG, who ignore blatant facts, as it is in their financial interests to do so.

Not only are their actions and inaction illegal but it GRAVELY calls into questions their adherence to professional ethics and professional conduct, all for the goal of increasing Berwin Leighton Paisner’s value.

I have already posted the SRA’s Form 1 5(1) for the parties who have to comply with the professional ethics and regulations of the SRA and so that part is done.

What I have to do now is to complete the sworn submissions with regard to Lisa Mayhew, Clare Edwards, Gaby Kaiser and Ron Downhill but I have been side tracked by what is really important to me and that is my daughter and that does take it out of me.

I have had enough of their churlish behaviour. I will complete my sworn statements, send them with the requisite forms and ONLY then, will I post onto my blog. No more warnings, no more opportunities to put things right; in fact, nothing.

  • Sod the unpaid dividends that I am due
  • Sod the compensation that I am sue for them putting me through so much distress

WHAT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT TO ME IS JUSTICE

I am sure that the SRA will endeavour to whitewash the whole debacle but not only are Surrey Police very interested in the web of deceipt, as it links to the abuse of my daughter and my nieces, but I have my 6,000 plus visitors to my blog, who will spread the word about the dishonest and deceitful way in which this so called icon of UK corporate law firms really behaves.

Not only that but I have my father’s very own emails to detail what money has been paid and to whom and the reason why, together with the fact that he confirmed, in writing,

THAT I WILL RECEIVE DIVIDENDS FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE.

THE HMRC WILL JUST LOVE THAT

SO MUCH FOR A DISCRETIONARY SETTLEMENT

I have all the facts, I have countless emails from Paicolex to evidence my case and a number of emails from Gaby Kaiser as well, in which she literally shoots herself in the foot.

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Let me cut the wood from the trees THE FALSE ABUSE CLAIMS

A great deal has been said by me of the possible scenarios of what happened but let me take it right back to basics.

  1. I tried to contact Verity’s mother and she responded in a text that it was Pat (aka Lori Cameron) who said that I had sexually abused Verity
  2. Pat in a previous email had said that I had admitted to abusing Verity in the bedroom
  3. But, when I was interrogated by the Police, they accused me of abusing Verity in my car.

Clearly, all of that is totally inconsistent with each other supposed fact, which means that the allegations made by Pat were false as were the allegations made by Verity’s mother. Both Pat and Verity’s mother did it for one thing and one thing only…

MONEY – Even Pat had told me that Verity’s mother had been paid

Furthermore, if I had abused Verity in the car, they would have taken it away for forensic analysis but they did not.

INDEED, THE POLICE NEVER TOUCHED THE CAR AT ALL

What does that tell you? Well, what it tells me is that

  • Pat, my father and Verity’s mother conspired with each other to provide false facts
  • The Police treated the allegations as completely true but then failed to support that by taking evidence from my car
  • The Police knew from the outset that the allegations were false but undertook my arrest and the investigation purely because of my father’s masonic links with the Police.
  • It took me just three months, working on my own, for a layman to prove that I was totally innocent of all such disgusting allegations
  • Verity had lied through her teeth, either because she had been abused by her grandfather or because he had manipulated and bribed her, either emotionally or financially.
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WHY I AM DUE COMPENSATION FROM BERWIN LEIGHTON PAISNER, PAICOLEX TRUST MANAGEMENT AG AND WILLIAM HENDER, MY OWN FATHER

The email below should help everyone to understand as to why I am due significant compensation from these three entities. I am not going to “reinvent the wheel” as the details in the email below are self explanatory

Compensation payments
This message was sent with High importance.
David Hender
Thu 02/05/2019 09:55
  • Lisa Mayhew Managing Partner Berwin Leighton;
  •  Clare Edwards (Paicolex);
  •  Bill Hender;
  •  Andrew Lugg (Paicolex Chairman)

+3 others

You may all believe that the compensation payments are unjustified but they are not.
With regard to Paicolex Trust Management AG
The trust company and its trust officers must make independent decisions as to payments out of the trust. The trust officers were clearly not independent and have therefore breached their fiduciary and legal duties to both the trust itself and to the beneficiaries.
This grave misconduct has resulted in one of the beneficiaries (i.e. me) being not only financially disadvantaged but has caused me significant emotional and physical harm and has been the primary cause of my psoriasis, a very painful affliction, cause by huge amounts of stress.
The trust officers have been well aware for a number of years of the brain cancer removal operation that has subsequently caused a very high susceptibility to stress and have thus put myself in significant personal physical danger. It is no exaggeration to say that I could have had a fatal heart attack at any time.
With regard to Berwin Leighton Paisner
 
As the holding company of the above, Berwin Leighton Paisner is to be held ultimately responsible for Paicolex’s actions and the grave effects that were caused to myself. Not only that, but BLP has been made aware countless times of all situations pertaining to me and they, including the Managing Partner, Lisa Mayhew, completely ignored my concerns and took no action whatsoever to protect me. They have, by their own admission, failed to bring to task those responsible for behaving in this way towards me and are thus just as culpable as Paicolex, as if Berwin Leighton Paisner had made those unfair and dishonest decisions and acted in a prejudicial way towards me and have thus breached their own fiduciary and legal duty of care that should have been afforded to me.
With regards to William Thomas Hender, my father
He has acted in a manner that has been highly prejudicial to me and has behaved outside his duties and responsibilities to the trust. By his actions, in demanding that the trust officers effect certain transactions that have caused me much distress and emotional harm, he too is culpable for his actions and must pay compensation as a result.
With regards to Paicolex Trust Management AG, Berwin Leighton Paisner and William Thomas Hender
All of the above parties have acted in concert in attempting to financially ruin me and to cause me harm, a level of harm that cannot, by any account, be monetised but a figure there has to be. No amount of money can assuage the level of harm that has been caused to me by the parties conspiring against me and by agreeing that spurious amounts of debt are due, by deducting sums, without my consent  (which goes against every rule in the book as to legal and fiduciary duties of care) and for all acting in such an unprofessional way as to an outsider believing that the trust and its assets are to do with as they please.
I cannot force the termination of employment of those individuals who directly acted in a way that was against my interest but removal of those employees, it has to be.
By the continual failure to hold those responsible to account, including Lisa Mayhew,the Managing Partner of Berwin Leighton Paisner, all of the entities have continually failed in their fundamental duty of care to the law and have failed in their legal and fiduciary duty of care to me, as a beneficiary.
In any firm that is professionally run, those people involved would have all be sacked for gross misconduct or removed from office for the same offence and walked out of the door by security, with no compensation for loss of office being paid but Berwin Leighton Paisner and Paicolex Trust Management AG have failed in even that fundamental basic responsibility. 
It is quite clear, by their own inaction and actions, that neither Berwin Leighton Paisner or Paicolex Trust Management AG can ever be trusted to either abide by the law or to protect the beneficiaries of a trust from harm but would rather throw away their independence and take instructions as to how the trust should be handled by a third party or associates of that third party.
I cannot take Paicolex to court as its is outside the jurisdiction of UK law but by suing Berwin Leighton Paisner, it would be a case of Goliath, with its massive funds, against a David, who has few funds but has been subjected to continual and conspiratorial harm by all parties.
Regards
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Berwin Leighton Paisner and Paicolex Trust Management AG are mere puppets of my father, WILLIAM THOMAS HENDER

Here we go again; what is that song? “Puppets on a string”

And if you wish to contact my father, his phone number is 00 44  (0)1372 270042 and his address is Timberchace, The Warren, Ashtead, Surrey, UK KT21 2SG.

You can also email him at billhender321@outlook.com

TELL HIM WHAT YOU THINK OF HIM

You can also email that crook, Claire Edwards, at Paicolex Trust Management AG.

Her email address is clare.edwards@paicolex.ch and her phone number is +41 43 222 31 60

Re: Income Payments
This message was sent with High importance.
David Hender
Fri 26/04/2019 15:19
  • Clare Edwards;
  •  Lisa Mayhew Managing Partner Berwin Leighton;
  •  Andrew Lugg (Paicolex Chairman);
  •  Ron Downhill;
  •  Gaby Kaiser;
  •  Martin Hender
Dear Miss Edwards,
You can send me that letter as many times as you like but you clearly do not appreciate my intellect.
As you know, I am a chartered accountant and forensic auditor of many years experience and your explanations just “do not wash”.
Here are my reasons for your explanations to be sheer and unadulterated rubbish
  • You clearly are just a pen pusher and whilst you are described as a trust officer, you do not know the first thing about trusts. The moment that the trust receives money, all beneficiaries are liable to tax on those dividends, NOT when they are physically paid the relevant monies
  • If an amount appears as an advanced receipt, ignoring the tax implications, it would appear in the following years accounts. As you will see from the attached, it does not, with £300,000 being received and paid AFTER the tax year commencement
  • For the subsequent year, the amount of £300,000 CANNOT  appear in both the profit and loss account AND the balance sheet
  • I strongly suggest that whilst Martin declared his “normal” dividend, he never declared the extra dividends of £245,000 and £300,000 respectively. I will be writing a separate letter to HMRC PURELY on this point and Martin will be subject to heavy fines, penalties and interest
Given your compliant intransigence and your complicity with my father, the compensation payments have now risen to£300,000 each. Every time that you declare a falsehood, the amount of compensation will increase by an additional £100,000
Regards
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My father is and has always been CORRUPT

I have always looked up to my father, even when we have disagreed.

I saw him build up his first company, General Guarantee Corporation, which was part of the GUS empire.

He always waxed lyrical about how he got the attention of the then owner of GUS, the late Sir Isaac Wolfson.

My father was working for what is now PWC and was asked by Sir Isaac to go in and rescue his investment from a failing company. My father went in and collected money for Sir Isaac, which he kept in a suitcase under his bed.

Why under the bed? Well, what my father was actually doing was to “prefer” Sir Isaac’s investment above all other creditors and so it could not be put in a bank. He BROKE THE LAW.

Sir Isaac got ALL of his money back and was so impressed that he invited my father to start up General Guarantee Corporation or GGC for short.

Using the money of GUS, he built up one of the then largest hire purchase companies in the UK. To get business, which was mainly for cars, he did deals with the dodgy car dealers and so his corruption continued.

He was so successful that he ended up on the main board of GUS as group finance director. GUS and GGC got bigger and they did deals with all sorts of people, one of them being Wells Fargo bank to start up a charge card company for fleets of motor vehicles to buy fuel. It was quite successful for a while but then got into trouble and so my father was put in charge of the sale.

Sir Isaac had retired by then and had been replaced by Lord Leonard Wolfson, his cousin, who is now also dead.

The deal to sale this fuel card company, called Overdrive, went sour and my father was blamed for it by Wolfson. Whether it was his fault or not, I do not know but such was the scale of the blame, he snapped and drove back from London with a flat tyre, not knowing what had happened.

He was now a broken man and was put in the Priory. After a while, I was permitted to bring him home at weekends. He always loved driving but his nerves were completely shot and nearly went through the roof when a car pulled out of a side road and I had to slam on the breaks.

My mother and I cared for him at weekends. I have no idea where Martin was but he was always absent, a position that he took time and time again when there was a family crisis, even when later on, my mother was suffering from Alzheimer’s and my father from a heart condition.

Years passed and he recovered, to an extent anyway. I do not believe that he was ever the same again.

Then this offer came along to start up Premium Credit but as a consultant. PC grew and grew and for reasons that are unimportant, a management buy out was planned. I remember them all toasting each other in London when the deal was done, as all of them had become rich men, very rich.

Ignoring the other participants, when the sale to a third party would be made, my father would become even richer but he did not want to pay any capital gains tax when that happened. It was also a useful tool to protect that money from inheritance tax if he died suddenly.

The management buy out scheme was set up to ensure that my father’s interests were put in a trust so that the UK tax man could not touch it. He basically asked the lawyers, Berwin Leighton Paisner to set up a tax evasion scheme and so more illegal corruption.

When Premium Credit was finally sold to a third party, in this case, MBNA, over  FIFTEEN MILLION POUNDS came my father’s way and was stuck in the trust.

NOT A SINGLE PENNY OF TAX WAS PAID 

Roll on a few years and we are where we are now. My father always denied that he was a Freemason but this is untrue. He used his masonic connections in a great deal of his business dealings and is now using those connections to stiffle any investigation into the abuse of my daughter.

Whether he will actually face justice is one matter but there are other factors to consider, primarily the welfare of my daughter and I do not think that she could bring herself to go through all of that again.

She loves her granddad and has just seen the “loving” performance that he has put on, not knowing what he is REALLY like or what he has done.

I do still love my father; I guess it is a “nurturing” thing  that cannot be broken but one thing is for sure……….

I NOW HATE MY FATHER. I NO LONGER RESPECT HIM AND NEVER WILL AGAIN

Second letter to Verity

And here is the second

Munch,

I admitted in my last letter that I had made a big mistake by marrying Rosanna and that I am still, to this day, suffering from the consequences.

Yes, I am suffering but I had a choice. I could either let it eat me away and destroy my life or I could try and rise above it. That is what I have tried to do.

I really wish that I could turn back the clock but I cannot and neither can you; we have to both rise above it , change our behaviour and learn from our mistakes.

It may seem as though there is no way back; I felt like that for a long long time but bit by bit, I started to put one foot in front of the other again. I had no one to help me, I had to do it all on my own but Verity, you don’t have to do it on your own, as you have me here to support you in any way that I can.

Life puts so many obstacles in our way. We could just give up or soldier on. It is not easy, take my word for it but there is another life for you and me to look forward to, which we can take together.

You may think “why is Dad being so nice to me?” but the truth of it is that because I love you so dearly, I do not want you to go through what I have been through for most of my life.

I want you to be happy and content and to live a worry free life as possible; there will be plenty of pitfalls to worry about in the future, I can assure you of that.

I am trying to plan yet another fresh start and that is why I am fighting so hard. The island holds no future for me. All it holds is sad memories and that is why I want to move back to the mainland. I no longer want to wallow in self pity.

So, that is my choice, to start again, to start afresh. You can make that happen for yourself but you need to chose to do it. Take a deep breath and take that first step. The first step is always the hardest but, as you take more and more steps, it becomes easier and you will reach a point when you will ask yourself as to what you were worried about in the first place.

The point that I am trying to make is that things CAN change if you want them to.

Your life has only just begun and you have so much to look forward to.

But take Richard Branson’s daughter. Her Dad is super rich and she wants for nothing; she is a socialite and spends her day shopping and partying. That is no way to run a life. She may not admit it but she has an emptiness that she cannot fill. Why?

Because she never got the love and guidance from her parents that she needed and that is why she is what she is.

I love you so very much and I am sure that your mother loves you too, in her own way. You have been guided from an early age to not only do what is right but to have a fulfilling life.

But you cannot have a fulfilling life if you are stuck in a ditch. Take a deep breath, take my hand and I will pull you out of that ditch so that we both can carry on living.

I have plenty of things that I want to do but I am stuck in that metaphorical ditch too. I need you to pull me out of mine, just as much as you need me to pull you out of yours.

I know it is hard Verity; it is much easier to say than do. WE can only do it if we do it together, restart our lives and then choose to spend it as we want to do. I cannot be in your life forever, that would be daft but it would be wonderful to spend some quality time together, once in a while.

But you must always remember this. Even if we are apart from time to time, I am always there for you; I will move mountains to be there for you.

That is what Dads do.

Dad

xx

First letter to Verity

As promised yesterday, I am now going to disclose my private letters to Verity. There are three of them and are going to be in separate posts. Here is the first

My Darling Verity,

This is probably the most important message that I will ever send to you and I really hope that it will hold you in good stead for the future.

First of all, I would like you to reread that post, especially before you go to bed, until you know it pretty much word for word. I want you to let your brain process it over time and then you will understand the message that I am trying to send you.

But, let’s face it; that blog has been all about you. Yes, I have written about other subjects but, in the main, it has all been about you and me.

There is no parent guide; well meaning people write many books about how a child should be brought up. But how can you write a book about bringing up children when every single child is different? You cannot, can you?

Some people think that they can bring up their child with an iron fist. That is how my father tried to bring me up but it didn’t really work.

There is only one way that you can bring up a child and that is with love and that is the way that Nana did it for me. Not with expensive gifts or toys but with love and she imparted her wisdom to me, over time, so that I am the man that I am now, with values and a strong moral ethic.

That is why I have fought so hard over the last 4 years. Where I see injustice, I fight against it, where I see hatred, I speak out and I have devoted the last 4 years of my life to those things.

No Dad is perfect, otherwise life would actually be very boring, wouldn’t it? Every Dad tries his best to balance up the needs of his loved ones with his career, as it is his career that supports his loved ones in the first place.

I can tell you, it is not an easy task; being pulled two ways, trying to please everyone but I tried, I tried very hard, because there was one thing that drove me; my love for you.

I know that I have talked about it before but please just bear with me.

When you were being born, I could see that you were getting into trouble; your Mum had no clue because all she had to do was push. I saw the look on your Mum’s face and I saw the look on the face of the midwife; confidence was turning to panic.

So, I stepped in and I burst out of the delivery room and threw a big wobbly and started shouting at the staff. I said that if there was not a doctor here in two minutes, I was going to sue because I was going to lose my daughter.

Then suddenly a doctor rushed in and took over from the midwife. You had a chord around your little neck and you were so close to being injured or worse. He had to get you out fast and used massive great forceps to literally yank you out.

Then I heard you cry and your mother and I could start to relax. I was told to sit down in a chair and you were presented to me, a baby alien, as the forceps had distorted your whole head. I looked up at the assistant and she said that I was not to worry; your head would return to normal very quickly. I was so relieved.

I was handed a small bottle and told that “your daughter is hungry”. I looked down at you and you looked up at me. At that very moment, an unbreakable bond was formed between you and me.

I made a solemn promise to you. I would do everything in my power to ensure that my little girl was well looked after and had everything that you needed.

It was much more of a promise though as promises can be broken. It was a contract between you and me, signed in my blood and my love for you.

If I achieved nothing else in my life, if I received no more gifts, it really did not matter because I had my Verity.

It was not long before your mother was back in hospital as she had got an infection is some placenta that had not come out. Your Mum was very ill and was whisked away from me, leaving just you and me. I was so worried about your Mum but I knew that you were safe as you were in my arms or in your cot.

Your Mum finally returned, sparked out with a drip. When she came to, she was exhausted. The joke was that I was then asked to leave. How could your exhausted Mum look after you? She could not so I begged and pleaded with the nursing staff and matron to let me stay so that your Mum could rest and I could look after you.

That would have never been allowed when I was born and a father in the delivery suite; how outrageous.

I fed and changed you during the night and walked around the corridors with you in my arms, with your big eyes looking up at me and me talking to you.

When you were sleepy, I tucked you in your cot and slept on the floor with just a blanket.

It was my 35th birthday but I didn’t give that any thought, as all I was worried about was you and your Mum.

When we got home, I would get into a routine. I would prepare all of your bottles that I still have and try to get some sleep. It was like I had a sixth sense because as soon as you stirred, I was up, every single time.

I whispered to you so that I didn’t wake up your Mum. You just gurgled and smiled, even whilst I was changing you. You were a little devil. Sometimes, I had got you all ready for bed when your nappy needed changing again. I was dog tired but you just smiled, clearly thinking that it was very funny.

Those were the very special times and my bond with you got stronger and stronger, if that was at all possible.

How I managed to keep an important job down at Premium Credit, whilst only having had hours of sleep, I have no idea but when you have a child, you do whatever it takes.

If or when you have a child of your own, only then will you understand what I mean.

Do you know what my favourite picture is? It is not of Liesel, Mum or Dad; it is one of you, taken shortly after Christmas when you were curtsying in your white tights and the purple dress that Nana had bought for you for Christmas. We were at Long Barn.

If I had a crystal ball, I would have never gone out with Rosanna and you and I would still be at our beautiful house, Long Barn; you will never know how much I regret selling our home but I thought it was for the best.

You saw through Rosanna long before I did but you could not say anything. How can you tell your Dad that his soon to be wife was dodgy?

That was my big mistake and boy did I pay for it. You see Munch, we all make mistakes, no matter how old we are and I do not want you to beat yourself up about your mistake. Some mistakes have very little effect but my mistake had massive consequences, consequences that still exist to this day.

I put my mistake right by divorcing Rosanna and you can put your mistake right too. Although it has had an effect on me, I will be right by your side, as I have always tried to be and hopefully will be right by your side whenever you need me in the future.

Just because a child turns into an adult, that does not mean that you will not need help in the future. Since Nana died, I have sought advice from my Dad, until it all went wrong of course but that was nothing to do with you.

I have lost 4 precious years of your life Verity and I do not want to miss anymore.

With all of my love

For now and always

Dad

The moon landings; fact or hoax?

I have just watched a very interesting documentary questioning whether the yanks went to the moon or not.

The link is below but you will need to sign up to UK TV on demand before you can watch it.

https://uktvplay.uktv.co.uk/shows/moon-landing-worlds-greatest-hoax/watch-online

It would not surprise me one bit that given their arrogance and the technical impossibility of going to the moon in the early 1960s, the yanks did fake it.

Verity, my daughter

Over the last week or two, I have sent some letters to Verity to try and coax her to do the right thing and tell the truth, whatever that is.

When I wrote those letters, I had no intention of publishing them on my blog but, as Verity has put her head in the sand, yet again, I have decided that from tomorrow, I will be publishing those letters in full, here on my blog.

Maybe it will achieve nothing but maybe it will shame Verity into doing what I have said that she should always do, take ownership of what happened and tell the truth, rather than skulking behind a wall of silence,

My father

I have just watched an episode of Death in Paradise when Kris Marshall’s father came out to see him. They had not got on for a very long time.

But when his father saw Kris or DI Goodman solve the case, he said to his son that he was very proud of him.

That brought back to me my relationship, or rather lack of it, with my father. I have always looked up to him, certainly until we came to blows but he was never proud of me and never said so.

That realisation brought tears to my eyes, I do not mind admitting. For as long as I can remember, my father has always denigrated me and looked down at me, whilst waxing lyrical about my brother.

Oh, he knew I had skills and he used them to great effect sorting out a lot of his broken stuff; he just used me, he never appreciated me. Yes, he would take me out for curries to say thank you but that was just spending money of which he had a lot and meant very little. He could never bring himself to say how proud he was of my achievements, because in a strange way, that would have dented his massive ego.

That is very sad and brings me great sadness too.

Independence Day – Resurgence – Typical Hollywood crap

Let me sum up:

The president goes and hides away in a secret bunker

The so called international fleet comprises mostly Americans and a Japanese woman

This is not gender bias, this is Hollywood crap. Most if not all of the films that are supposed to be of international origin actually contain just American and maybe Asians, no Europeans, No Brits

Okay, the film passes the time of day but it no better than what is on toilet paper. They just pump out these films on a production line. When you make things on a production line, especially a yank production line, quality takes a back seat over cost; boy does it show. Most are rubbish but they do not care; they are not bothered about artistry or craft; they are just only interested in money.

Yes, that is what drives every economy in the world but the yanks make it as though it was an Olympic sport.

They have no pride, no creativity, just oudles of computers making pretty pictures. It is striking that the yank movies that do not use CGI, such as Philadelphia, The Godfather, Rain Man and Midnight Cowboy are very powerful films because they have used craft, not toys; they have used their skill and artistry.

That is why I have so little respect for yank films

COMPENSATION – Part 1 – Premium Credit and the destruction of my career

I have had to think about this long and hard, apportioning blame to the various parties involved.

I should stress that this compensation EXCLUDES:

  • Unpaid dividends to me as joint beneficiary of the Hender Family Settlement
  • Illegal “draw back” of dividends by the trust officers for illegal non existent loans
  • Monies that I have identified or have been disclosed to me, paid to my brother only; for example the “advanced inheritance”

 

Monies and the reasons for the claims against individuals or organisations are detailed below:

LEON STOFFBERG, FORMER CHAIRMAN OF PREMIUM CREDIT LIMITED

The claim against this person amounts to £500,000

The reason for this claim is that after putting my career in jeopardy for disclosing the fraud to him, he directed me to then cover it up and preventing me from informing the outside investors, which was part of my duties as Finance Director.

The cover up was only instigated because of the family connection with the fraudster, Michael Cobb and the fall out that would cause within his family, particularly his sister, the wife of the fraudster.

This went against everything that I believed in and was trained to uphold, both professionally and ethically.

If the outside investors had discovered the cover up, as the person who was in sole charge of the finances, I would have been used as a scape goat and my career would have been over.

This claim also reflects that he did not have the gumption to sack his brother-in-law for the fraud, for fear of upsetting his sister, the fraudster’s wife, who benefited from artificially high incentives also,albeit indirectly.

 

Michael Cobb, head of the Commercial division; the fraudster

The claim against this person amounts to £750,000

This individual hid bad debts, amounting to tens of millions, in order for him to pretend that he was managing the division correctly and professionally. He also hid the bad debts to ensure that with low bad debts and a healthy surplus in his division, his incentive was artificially uplifted.

After committing the fraud, he also had the arrogant audacity of accusing me of betrayal by reporting to the chairman, his brother-in-law, details of the fraud itself.

Ken Garrodd, my immediate boss

The claim against this person, for whom I had and have no respect, amounts to £1m.

That may seem a particularly large figure, especially considering that he was not at “the top of the tree”. The claim, against Garrodd, is so large for one simple reason.

He and he alone destroyed my career.

I have already recounted the fact that he refused extra staff for my department FOUR TIMES  so that particular fact does not bear repeating.

But because he DID refuse me extra staff, out of arrogance, wanting to keep the costs down and his incentives high or for whatever reason, he broke me.

Yes, I had a weakness but under Leon Stoffberg, I managed my staff and the the throughput very well. In fact, save for the debacle of the fraud, I worked well with Leon, highly respected him, as I still do and was firing on all cylinders.

I had already warned Garrodd that my team and I were getting stretched by the increase in activity of the company but he paid no heed. Writing report after report was just a delaying tactic and a very short sighted one at that.

Even the compensation that I received would have paid for extra staff and more qualified staff that I had already. Staff were thrown at the sales divisions, for obvious reasons but, with extra sales, comes extra workload for the people who have to manage it.

My team did a sterling job and any one of us could have broken but I broke first, as I took on the extra workload myself and just worked longer and longer hours.

Garrodd is not uncommon, as my department, like many others in different companies, are seen as pure cost centres, regardless of the fact that they facilitate the completion of the sales process.

Before joining Premium Credit, Garrodd moved from company to company, one of them being the failed lottery bid by Virgin. As to why he was chosen is beyond me; he was not hands on from the start and it quickly became apparent that all he was, was an “armchair director”, completely “hands off”. But he raked in the money. Bringing his Aston Martin to work was like putting two fingers up to his staff and those who worked under them.

I worked bloody hard to get my qualifications, building up experience as I went.

I was only 38/39 and he took all away all of my dreams, all of my aspirations and my future and so, out of all those with whom I worked, he has to pay the most

Graham Puttergill, Chairman of Premium Credit

I remember that when I was disgusted about the lack of acknowledgement of my efforts that was reflected in my bonus, I did go over Garrodd’s head and went straight to Graham.

I was very blunt and said that I was underappreciated; I had sacrificed a great deal for the company. I said that in order for one of the lady sales directors to get big bonuses, all they had to do was to walk into his office and flash their legs. I remember his exact words “David, you are not worthy of such a comment” but there was some truth in what I said.

But he has to contribute for one reason and one reason only.

I had sort of left following my breakdown and the family trust now held a great deal of shares. When the compensation was negotiated, it was quite clear that given my young age, experience and remuneration, the level of compensation was purposely depressed, due to the expectation that I would receive millions when the company was finally sold.

This was totally wrong because I should have been treated as an individual and any income that I may have received from the family trust was irrelevant.

To put it bluntly and remember that I was only 39 with my career over, the monetary compensation that I received only equated to 5 years of salary, if that and when I received shares, as did all of the junior management, my allocation was the second smallest. That was an insult.

Sharon Beckett, the sales director of the personal lines division, received £1m in shares, promptly resigned and then walked into a high paid job working for Leon Stoffberg. Lovely, if you can get it.

For the reason detailed above, Graham Puttergill’s contribution is £500,000